Perinatal Loss
Even though, nearly 1 in 4 pregnancies end in loss, many struggle to find support.
We are so very sorry for your loss. In the days, weeks or even months and years ahead, remember you are not alone.
For many families, the instant you found out you were pregnant, your life changed forever. Whether you were feeling joy or apprehension, this new baby was part of your future. You are now grieving the loss of that future. When a baby dies, those hopes and dreams are lost, and lives are forever changed. The feelings you have after the loss of a pregnancy or the death of a baby can be overwhelming and intense. You will not only begin a journey of recovering physically, but also emotionally.
Whether you have had an early pregnancy loss, miscarriage, stillbirth, a termination for medical reasons or an infant loss, initial feelings of shock and confusion may be combined with questions.
What happened? Why me? Many times the lack of answers to these questions adds to the overwhelming feelings of grief and helplessness.
It may be difficult for someone who has never lost a baby to comprehend what you are going through. Some people may not know what to say, or say the wrong thing even with good intentions. The best way to deal with others when you are grieving is to be honest and tell people what you need.
Even if others are having a difficult time understanding your loss, allow yourself time to remember and honor your precious baby.
